eugene / springfield parents, families and friends of lesbians, gays, bisexuals and transgenders
Monthly Meeting: Most 3rd Mondays, First Congregational Church, 1050 E. 23rd, 6:45 p.m.

Transgender/Intersex information

PFLAG welcomes those who identify as transgendered, intersexual, or questioning. Meetings offer an opportunity to meet in a small group or to meet and get to know other GLBTQI people as well as their families and friends!

Your PFLAG Eugene/Springfield Transgender Coordinator is Risa Stephanie Bear. She will be glad to talk with anyone or any group on trans issues. You may contact her at bears[at]epud.net or through the help line number at upper right.

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TNET

Your Northwest Regional TNET Coodinator is Robyn Walters, who lives in Seattle.

TNET? Yes, there is a national trans chapter of PFLAG! See: http://www.pflag.org/TNET.tnet.0.html. Or en Espanol: http://www.pflag.org/TNET_en_Espanol.tnet_espanol.0.html. Here's the Current Issue of eTransParent, PFLAG's national trans/intersex issues newsletter). And here's the TransParent Archive.

PFLAG's Transgender Network has been listed in 52 Things You Can Do for Transgender Equality by the National Center for Transgender Equality. Learn more about the resource today!

Transparents/families Conference

Gender Odyssey is pleased to announce the first family conference for parents of gender variant and transgender children! Join us in Seattle during the 2007 Labor Day weekend as we debut the first family-centered conference for people raising gender variant and transgender kids and teens. Stephanie Brill, conference program director and founder of the Children's Hospital Oakland support group for parents of gender variant and transgender young children, brings her expertise and ground-breaking work to our family conference.

Gender Odyssey - Family
Washington State Convention and Trade Center
Seattle, Washington
August 31st - September 2nd, 2007

What to expect...

* Amazing presentations, panel discussions and interactive forums where parents can explore the issues related to raising children who do not fit into society's current expectations of gender.

* Excellent childcare for our gender variant kids and their siblings to play together while the parents attend workshops.

* Two picnic lunches for families to meet, socialize, and share experiences.

* Workshops for teens and older children throughout the weekend.


Programming topics...

* Gender Inside/Outside of the Home
What are the obstacles my child might face? How can I best prepare my child?

* Terminology
What are the differences between gender presentation, gender identity, gender fluidity, and gender behavior?

* Ask the Trans Person
Q & A panel discussion

* Developing Your Child's Self-Esteem
How do I best love and support my child?

* Should I Consider Medical Intervention?
If so, what's reasonable? Do I wait until my child is an adult? What about puberty? What if my kid changes his/her mind?

* Managing Healthcare
Current medical information about endocrinology--hormones, physical changes, side effects, insurance options.

* Advocacy for Your Child
How do I educate my child's school, other children's parents, doctors or therapists?

Register early for discounted rates.
Submit a workshop proposal--deadline April 1st.
www.genderodyssey.com/family

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City Code revisions

Your voice urgently needed!

The Eugene Human Rights Commission is working with the community to educate on trans issues and ultimately to add gender identity and expression to the City of Eugene non-discrimination/human rights code.

Please call or write to the Eugene Human Rights Commission (682-5177 or e-mail hrc@ci.eugene.or.us) expressing appreciation of their work and support for the transgender community. If you can, Offer to help!

See: Gender Identity

A glossary of gender identity terms

Crossdresser:  a person who feels compelled to or enjoys wearing the clothing of the opposite sex on an occasional basis.  Crossdressers are often heterosexual men. This behavior is often carried out in isolation, but many social clubs offer emotional support for crossdressers and their partners and may host events that provide an opportunity for people to socialize while experiencing the role of the opposite sex.  The term "transvestite" has also been used, but is sometimes considered offensive.

Drag Queen or Drag King:  one who crossdresses, usually for performance/entertainment.  This term is used more frequently in lesbian-gay-bisexual communities.

FFS: facial feminization surgery.

FTM: female to male transsexual.

Gender:  a system of classification describing attributes commonly associated with maleness or femaleness. Masculine characteristics are typically associated with persons who have male bodies; feminine characteristics are typically associated with persons who have female bodies. The exact characteristics are culturally defined and therefore variable across cultures or across time.

Gender Expression:  the external presentation or appearance of a person's gender, such as dress, mannerisms, hair style, and speech.  A person's gender expression may differ from one's gender identity.

Gender Identity:  A person's view of their own gender, which includes aspects of a person's appearance, expression, or behavior. A person's gender identity may or may not conform to the conventional expectations for their assigned sex at birth.

Genderqueer: someone who refuses or plays with gender categorization.

Gender Variant: someone whose combination of legal sex, birth sex, gender identity, gender expression, and perceived gender do not line up according to societal expectations. The term "genderqueer" is similar, though "gender variant" is preferred by those not comfortable using the word "queer".

Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT):  the process of taking hormones to achieve the secondary sex characteristics of the desired sex.

Intersex:  an individual whose biological and/or genetic traits at birth do not correspond with conventional concepts of male/female anatomy.  Most people choose to refer to themselves as intersex rather than hermaphrodites, and the use of the term hermaphrodite by non-intersex people is often considered offensive.  While some intersex people are also transgender, intersex people as a group have a unique set of needs and struggles.

MTF: male to female transsexual.

Perceived Gender:  what another person assumes one's gender is in a given interaction. Some people's gender expression is commonly misinterpreted or confused and is different from their identity/expression.

Post-op: transsexual who has had sex reassignment surgery.

Pre-op: transsexual who is considering or preparing for sex reassignment surgery.
 
Sexual Orientation:  the romantic and sexual attraction a person feels to a particular gender or genders (gay, lesbian, heterosexual, or bisexual).

Sex Reassignment Surgery (SRS): surgery for the purpose of having a body more consistent with one's gender identity. SRS may be quite costly, and not everyone who desires SRS has equal access.  Also known as Gender Reassignment Surgery (GRS).

Standards of Care:  a set of guidelines formulated by the Harry Benjamin International Gender Dysphoria Association to determine when and how transpeople may obtain hormones and sex reassignment, involving a period of psychotherapy, "the Real Life Test," and, if desired, hormones and/or surgery. Only recently have The Standards of Care been rewritten with advice and counsel from actual trans persons.

Transgender:  a generally accepted umbrella term describing anyone who exhibits characteristics of a gender that does not match one's apparent or actual physical sex. The term can include people who are transsexual, crossdressers, drag kings and queens, some two-spirit people, and anyone who breaks gender boundaries, regardless of sex, gender identity, or sexual orientation.  Sometimes the abbreviated word "trans" is used.

Transgenderist:  a person who lives full time in the gender of his or her choice (different from the body type) without desiring gender reassignment surgery. Some transgenderists consider themselves to be "non-operative" transsexuals. Transgenderists may or may not choose to take hormones to permanently alter their appearance.

Transition: the process of changing one's presentation and/or expression to align with one's gender identity. Some of these changes include manner of dress, name change, pronoun change, hormonal modifications, or surgery. Transition varies greatly across the transgender community, both in what people choose to change and when certain changes feel most comfortable.

Transsexual:  a medical term applied to those transgender people who feel such incongruity between their body and their gender that they seek medical assistance in transforming their body to address the incongruity, regardless of sexual orientation.

Two-Spirit: A term used by some members of Native American and First Nations communities to describe someone with both male and female spirit. This can involve someone's sexual orientation, gender identity, both, or other factors -- not everyone who is two-spirit identifies as being "trans." The use of two-spirit by non-First Nations people is sometimes considered cultural appropriation, hence offensive.

PFLAG scholarship programs

PFLAG Scholarships provide an important, positive statement to a group of young people that is coping amazingly well in an often adverse school environment. They are marginalized and subjected to harassment and discrimination in many parts of the country, not only at school but also often in their own families.  We have found many of them to be articulate, accomplished scholars with great promise for future contribution to our society in general and to the cause of rights and recognition for GLBT people in particular.  

Scholarships are available at the national level and are awarded by many of the local chapters.  Youth can receive both awards if eligible. 

Click here for information about the PFLAG National Scholarships Program, or here for a list of scholarships available from local chapters. If you are an employee of Dow Chemical and would like to donate to the Dow Scholarships, click here.

For more information or if you have questions, please contact the scholarships administrator.

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PFLAG Vision

We, the parents, families and friends of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgendered persons, celebrate diversity and envision a society that embraces everyone, including those of diverse sexual orientations and gender identities. Only with respect, dignity and equality for all will we reach our full potential as human beings, individually and collectively. PFLAG welcomes the participation and support of all who share in, and hope to realize this vision.

PFLAG Mission

PFLAG promotes the health and well-being of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgendered persons, their families and friends through: support, to cope with an adverse society; education, to enlighten an ill-informed public; and advocacy, to end discrimination and to secure equal civil rights. Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays provides opportunity for dialogue about sexual orientation and gender identity, and acts to create a society that is healthy and respectful of human diversity.